so, here's the deal . . . I don't hold grudges. I went down the list of everyone I once was holding a grudge against and realized I don't have anyone. That is so huge for me! But I seriously gave them all up when I went to camp about 4 years ago. It was a very eye-opening experience to realize all the junk I was carrying around . . . mad at other people who really probably could care less if I was mad.
I never really could keep a grudge going . . . could be the A.D.D. or that I really wasn't that mad to begin with. I think sometimes someone does something to us and it doesn't really bother us until we tell our friends and then their reaction makes us mad. You know what I mean? Until someone says, "They did WHAT?" you were pretty okay with it. But not now. Kind of like they are feeding your reaction.
I guess right now I just have way more on my plate and I really don't have time for all that nonsense.
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